Their love is grand: 8 tearjerkers to watch when you miss your lolo, lola

Our cherished lolos and lolas (grandparents) undeniably hold a profound and irreplaceable spot in our hearts. They are the quiet pillars of our families, showering their apos (grandchildren) with unique forms of care and unconditional love, transforming even the most ordinary moments—like sharing a meal or watching a teleserye—into treasured memories that we wouldn't trade for anything.

When these heartfelt stories about grandparents grace the big screen, they inevitably stir a deep well of warmth and nostalgia within us. If you're yearning for a good cry or simply missing your own lolo and lola, prepare to keep a box of tissues close as we explore these powerful local and international films, each celebrating the incredible, enduring bond with our elders.

Kicking off our list is the 2024 film *Big World*, a truly unique take on the grandson-grandmother dynamic from director Yang Lina. Chinese actor Jackson Yee delivers a surprising performance as Liu Chunhe, a young man with cerebral palsy who courageously supports his grandmother's unexpected dream of becoming a stage performer. This critically acclaimed movie, which won the Audience Award at the 37th Tokyo International Film Festival, beautifully champions representation and the powerful, unconditional love a grandmother has for her grandchild, embracing him fully.

For an unconventional and highly engaging duo, look no further than *Lolo and the Kid* (2024), directed by Benedict Mique. This local film rapidly climbed to the top of Netflix charts in 38 countries last year, thanks to the undeniable chemistry between Joel Torre as Lolo Mario and Euwenn Mikaell (later Juan Karlos Labajo) as Kid. It’s a compelling narrative that, despite its seemingly predictable "con duo" storyline, delves into the harsh realities of poverty and survival, ultimately delivering an emotional punch when you least expect it.

Prepare for a flood of emotions with the 2024 Thai film, *How to Make Millions Before Grandma Dies*. This cinematic phenomenon left audiences in tears, and for good reason! It follows M (played by Billkin), a young man motivated by the prospect of inheritance to care for his ailing grandmother (Usha Seamkhum). Beyond the emotional journey, the film sparks vital conversations about the responsibilities children and relatives bear in caring for their elderly, especially during sickness, making it a must-watch reflection on family bonds.

Tackling themes of mortality and memory with grace and a touch of humor is *Lola Igna* (2019). This poignant film introduces us to a spirited grandmother whose quiet wish to pass on is complicated by her neighbors' obsession with her title as "the oldest living grandmother in the Philippines." Directed by the late Eduardo Roy Jr., the movie earned Best Picture at the Pista ng Pelikulang Pilipino Gabi ng Parangal 2019, with Angie Ferro delivering an unforgettable, Best Actress-winning performance as the titular Lola Igna, who navigates fame in her golden years.

*Kung Paano Hinihintay ang Dapithapon* (2018), or "How to Await Sundown," offers a mature love story expertly guided by director Carlo Enciso Catu. Starring veteran actors Dante Rivero, Menggie Coburrubias, and Perla Bautista, it portrays a married couple whose routines are disrupted by the unexpected return of the wife's estranged husband. This Best Film winner at the Cinemalaya Philippine Independent Film Festival explores the evolution of relationships, forgiveness, and regret, leaving viewers with profound lines to ponder, such as the heartbreaking realization of how love can simply fade.

For those who prefer animated masterpieces, Pixar’s *Coco* (2017) is an absolute tearjerker that transcends age. Widely celebrated for its iconic song "Remember Me," which continues to touch hearts globally, the film follows aspiring musician Miguel on a vibrant journey into the Land of the Dead. As he uncovers his family's hidden history and the origins of their music ban, *Coco* beautifully celebrates Mexican culture, the importance of family, and the enduring power of remembering our departed loved ones. Prepare for an emotional experience that rivals any live-action drama.

Exploring the timeless notion that first love never truly dies, *1st Ko Si 3rd* (2014) is a charming comedy-drama that resonates deeply. The film centers on Cory (Nova Villa), a woman in her 60s who unexpectedly reconnects with her first love, Third (Freddie Webb). Directed by Real S. Florido, this seemingly simple yet emotionally rich story invites reflection on past relationships, lingering regrets, and pivotal life choices. Dante Rivero also earned a Best Actor award at Cinemalaya X for his compelling portrayal of Alejandro, Cory's husband.

Completing our list is the multi-awarded 2012 film *Bwakaw*, a poignant tale that will undoubtedly open the floodgates. Directed by Jun Robles Lana, it features the late Eddie Garcia as Rene, a lonely, aging gay man who believes it's too late for new beginnings. His life takes a heartfelt turn when he finds companionship in an aspin named Bwakaw, his loyal canine friend. This critically acclaimed film, screened at prestigious festivals like New York and Toronto and hailed by Time magazine, beautifully captures themes of loneliness, acceptance, and the power of unexpected bonds.